How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What were some of the unforgettable incidents from your school life?

Procrastinates a lot.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why has my ex moved on so fast after years of being together with me?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Is Daenerys Targaryen really the most beautiful woman, or is everyone saying that just to flatter her?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What's the most sordid activity you've ever seen or heard about at a bachelorette party?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How is TikTok able to censor porn?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why are people with Asperger syndrome unenthusiastic?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The International Boxing Association said that Khelif and Lin competing in Paris Olympics were disqualified from the tournament for testing positive for XY chromosomes which give an unfair advantage in the women’s division. What do you think?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What pleasure do guys get by sucking female breasts?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Trump is shot, tackled by SS agents, yet then stands, defiant, with fist high, and 52 hours later, walks into the Republican Convention to thunderous applause. Is there anything that can stop this man, who loves his country? Does he get your vote?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do many people think that Japan is not a gay-friendly country whereas 72% Japanese support same-sex marriage (the same number as in the US)?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What was your best experience of having your navel touched?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What I need from you?

What was your embarrassing moment in front of your father-in-law as an Indian daughter-in-law?

Ask yourself:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

That's it for today.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.